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Tuesday, July 29, 2008

Stressed?

I started to coach my daughter in her studies everyday for at least an hour since beginning of last week.

I had many complaints and only when I started to coach then I realised that she is indeed very weak in her Maths. Her foundation is not firm....

I only had myself to blame and hopefully it will not be too late to start on her...

I understand that she is tire out, school, student care, tuition, CCA..... but I trust she can do better if I help her....

Yesterday she was tired after her tuition at the student care, after dinner and rested for a while, we started around 8.30pm....

She was not happy throughout and lamented that I gave her stress and why her brother of Secondary 1 need not....

I have gone through once with my son and I hope history will not repeat for her...

I told her it might be stressful now for her and for me but when the result is good, she will know that whatever I am doing now is for her future...

When we were on bed trying to get a day rest, my daughter recited this poem of hers to me!

All children are sad when their parent give them stress
All parents are happy when their children are stressed!

OMG! I started to think, was I wrong? Did I coach wrongly? Did I use the wrong tactic? Am I really giving her stress?

I am really at a loss now......

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